Aggression in ChildrenWhy do children of this age become aggressiveAccording to the article "Why do children of this age become aggressive" explains looking at your little one at the nursery window, thinking about how lucky you are . Suddenly, he reaches out his little hand and hits another child in the face. As much as it may bother you, aggression is a normal part of a child's development. Many children this age grab classmates' toys, glue them together, kick them, or scream until they occasionally bruise. Sometimes there is a reason why they fear; for example, you might glue your child to others if you feel cornered by another child. Other reasons may have more to do with frustration. After all, your child is learning many new skills, from using scissors to articulating complex sentences. You can get very frustrated trying to learn everything and end up attacking a friend. If you attend nursery school for the first time, you are also used to being away from home. If you feel resentful or neglected, he may react by pushing any child who gets in his way. Sometimes he's just a little tired and hungry and doesn't know how to react, so he responds by biting, hitting or throwing tantrums. The child will eventually stop showing aggressive behaviors, for example, he will learn to use words instead of fists and feet to solve problems. The key is to help yourself realize this as soon as possible and you will get better results than tearing your hair out talking to a friend. Dealing with aggression means speaking quickly, it is better to let it be known immediately when you have done something wrong. Take it from the point where the attack occurred, so you can think that, for a preschooler, three or four minutes of separation from each other is enough. The idea is to relate his behavior to the outcome and know that biting or kicking...... middle of paper......mes can also contain aggressive themes, so if you have older siblings try not to be exposed to their games. Don't be afraid to ask for help: some children have more aggression problems than others. If your child's aggressive behavior is frequent and severe, interferes with school or other organized activities, and results in physical attacks on other children or adults, talk to the nurse or doctor. Together we can try to get to the bottom of the problem and see if the intervention of a psychologist or psychiatrist is necessary. Concluding with the article, sometimes there is a learning or behavior problem behind the frustration and anger, sometimes the problem concerns family or emotional problems. It is highly unlikely that you will need professional help, but if your child needs help, it is a relief to know that you don't have to solve the problem alone.