Then my father told me "forget football think about your future every member of our family is a successful person you must be successful, concentrate on your study" Not I was completely convinced of what he told me so he understood that I have a problem listening to someone and doing what they tell me. So he took me with him to visit two of his friends, one of them was an engineer and the other was a normal employee, I guess she was a secretary. Suddenly he whispered to me “who would you like to be like the engineer or the normal employee?” my father said, I said to myself that I really don't want to be like the normal employee, he graduated from high school with a low grade and he is a secretary with a low salary. I didn't want to live like him or be stupid like him. Most of his salary is spent on loans, his wife and his children. his financial situation was horrible. However, I liked the way the engineer lives, he has a great salary, wears the best clothes, drives the newest and fanciest cars and travels twice a year, I definitely want to live his life. So my father's words hit me better, I started thinking about my future, I started working hard in high school, I said to myself in those three years in high school: my future must be or not be a successful man. After those three years in high school I got a really high GPA,